Secret Santa Budgets & Etiquette: How Much to Spend

The most common Secret Santa question is also the most awkward to ask: how much am I actually meant to spend? Here's the sensible answer.

The going rate

For most office and family Secret Santas, £10 to £20 is the sweet spot. £5–£10 for big or casual groups; up to £25 for closer circles. The key is that the group agrees one figure — the magic of Secret Santa is that everyone spends about the same.

The etiquette

• Hit the budget, don't blow past it. Spending double makes everyone else look stingy.
• Keep it appropriate — especially at work. When in doubt, consumable and cheerful beats personal.
• Use the wishlist if there is one. A gift someone actually wants always beats a clever guess.

Make the budget go further

At a fixed budget, the win is buying well — so compare prices before you commit. The same gift can be a few pounds cheaper elsewhere, which at £15 is real money.