Don't Buy Her Flowers
Don't Buy Her Flowers puts together gift boxes as an alternative to a bouquet. Founder Steph started it in 2014 from a spare bedroom, after realising as a new mum that she wanted practical comforts more than flowers. Boxes now cover birthdays, new babies, illness, grief and simple kindness, each one wrapped and finished with a handwritten tag.
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About Don't Buy Her Flowers
Building a box
You can choose a ready-made box or start from nothing with Create Your Own. The pool holds over 250 products, from books and cosy socks to pamper and beauty treats, food and drinks. Many ready-made boxes come with options and add-ons, so you can tweak one rather than start again.
Themed ideas include a book box, a cheese and wine box, a care package for men and one for pregnancy. Get-well and bereavement boxes cover the harder moments.
When it fits
It works best when flowers feel wrong: a friend recovering at home, a parent with a newborn, or someone grieving. If you can't decide, a gift card lets the recipient choose for themselves.
Practical details
- UK orders over £35 get free standard shipping.
- American customers order through a separate US website.
- Pay by Visa, Mastercard or PayPal.
- Emails to customer service get an answer within 24 hours on weekdays, and phones are staffed from 9:30am to 4:30pm.
Refund and return steps are explained on the shop's returns policy page.
Don't Buy Her Flowers quick facts
| Free delivery | On orders over £35 |
|---|---|
| Delivery | Enjoy free standard shipping on orders over £35 within the UK. We also offer international shipping, with a dedicated US website for American customers. |
| Returns | We aim for complete customer satisfaction. Please refer to our website's dedicated returns policy page for detailed information on how to return items and our refund process. |
| Payment methods | Visa, Mastercard, PayPal |
| Gift cards | Yes |
| Loyalty scheme | lisa&me |
| Founded | 2014 |
| Stores | 0 |
Don't Buy Her Flowers contact
- Website
- dontbuyherflowers.com
- Hours
- Phones manned 9:30 am to 4:30 pm. Email replies within 24 hours, Monday to Friday.
Don't Buy Her Flowers FAQs
Who started Don't Buy Her Flowers?
A founder called Steph launched it in 2014, working from a spare bedroom. Her own time as a new mum, wanting comfort more than bouquets, shaped the idea.
How much is delivery?
Standard shipping is free on UK orders over £35. Customers in America buy through the brand's separate US site instead.
Can I pick every item in the box myself?
Yes. Create Your Own lets you choose from more than 250 products, and many ready-made boxes also offer add-ons and options.
What if the recipient would rather choose?
Gift cards are available, letting the person choose their own treats instead of receiving a ready-made box.